Getting settled in a new country…

Where do I even start with our first several days living in Barcelona? I swore I would get online and post all the goodness that happened to us as it happened. Then we just went and enjoyed all that was thrown our way…. so here I finally go.

We arrived Monday without issue. Flights were on time (early), all 8 of our checked bags arrived, van was there to pick us up and had us at our new apartment ahead of schedule. David and I had seen this apartment in person in early March and luckily it didn’t disappoint. Besides being vastly ill-equipped (think no strainer, sheets or even one sharp knife) it is just right. We set out to visit our first retail store in 5 months. And why not start with the very best – El Corte Inglés. Nine glorious floors of an old school department store – think travel agency, restaurant, groceries, food court, furniture, electronics (electric scooters too) and all the perfume, shoes, make-up and clothing anyone could dream of. Kids got to pick out their own sheets and towels (they enjoyed this much more than I thought they would), picked up some groceries then headed back to the apartment. Dropped our haul and sought out the gourmet shop around the corner. We were the only guests and had them surprise us with a specialty ibérico ham tasting, our favorite local delicacy. We were walked through the flavors and differences and sipped local red wine, nibbled on olives, cheese and pan con tomate (bread with tomato). We were in heaven!! A perfect first “meal” in Barcelona. We chatted at length with the manager, Marta, who let the kids and I go behind the legs of ham and try our paper thin slicing skills. We didn’t do so bad for our first try and were even invited back. Here’s an article about a gentleman famous as a cortador de jamones. Read about him! Today I looked to pick up some jamòn at the grocery store and Lilly just looked at it in disgust and said, “I just want to go see Marta!” That kid cracks me up.

We were pretty excited about our new home and took us a while to wind down. We didn’t even take a nap once we arrived and the adrenaline was pumping. Our apartment has large giant glass doors that lead to two terraces but luckily have wooden doors behind them to block out the light completely. Sacked out until about noon on Tuesday. Guess we were tired after all.

Tuesday we set off to explore a couple of neighborhoods we like – The Gothic Quarter and El Born. Saw some ruins, wandered the streets, nibbled along the way. Covered about 8.5 miles on foot. Back to El Corte Inglés for more groceries. It’s an easy 7 minute walk from our pad. The organic food market is on our block for more basic needs.

Excavated ruins dating to the 1700s in El Born Cultural Center.

On what was only our second full day in the city we wandered up to another great neighborhood, Gracia. I think if we were not living smack dab in the middle of town this would be the area for us. Great markets, lovely independent shops, lots of young families out strolling. There is an annual street festival that would have been happening here now- but COVID. Major bummer since the neighborhoods decorate above the streets and alleys in elaborate fashion in the middle of each August. There were a couple folks who still made an effort but nothing near the creations I have seen from past years. So, the pandemic really has changed things around the world. What I will say is this – I would much rather there NOT be a pandemic and huge economic problems in Barcelona (and around the world, obviously). However, the lack of tourists around the city is AMAZING. Traffic is down, you are not shoulder to shoulder at street crossings, people are respecting your personal bubble in a big way, virtually 100% mask compliance, hand sanitizing stations at the front of every store, extra cleaning measures, a ban on smoking when 2 meters distance cannot be maintained. It’s really the perfect time for us to start our adventure. We hope that world travel will again be possible, but we are making the most of having the city to ourselves. Since we didn’t want to stray from tradition too much we made tacos for dinner – a familiar taste of home. Again, too excited to sleep and up until about 2:00 am.

Yesterday we did more to make our apartment feel more like a home and picked up some much needed supplies. I sort of feel like I’m outfitting a college dorm. Cameron had me get the fixings for his lemon chicken – lemon and chicken! He was the master in the kitchen and sautéed up a tasty little meal for us complete with fried rice and broccoli. The kitchen has room for about 1.5 people so it was crowded with the two of us side by side, but we made do.

Making lemon chicken dinner for the family!

The vast majority of the locals speak English and quickly switch to it to help us. I usually make it a point to tell them I’m practicing my Spanish and they gladly swap back and offer to teach me. Everyone is grateful I’m making an effort and are very patient. It will be slow going since there are not a ton of human interactions. I suffer from a major lack of confidence with speaking Spanish. Luckily I understand most of what is said TO me. Today was a first for me when the plumber showed up to assess the repair needs for our two showers and a door. I was able to explain in Spanish what was wrong (yes, I was pointing a lot and letting him fill in the blanks) and communicate our needs. At least I think I did!

Oh, one thing that cracks me up is that we are now the proud owners of one of those rolling carts so we can haul our groceries across town. So even if I can’t speak the part, at least I can look the part.

Cameron bought a new skateboard on DAY 1 with birthday money from the grandpas and has been riding it daily on a pedestrian promenade around the corner. I’m in heaven on a bench reading my book, people watching and keeping an eye on my guy and his improving skills. Lilly is my shopping partner – she is willing to hoof it to get groceries and helps pick out new things to try. David is working from our apartment and one of several WeWork offices a stone’s throw from home. So far we’ve been able to find a nice balance and sneak in dinner at home with him in between meetings and calls. He never ceases to amaze me with how he gets it all done. Tonight he’s having a traditional campout on the family room couch with Cameron like they do back home complete with late night TV watching and making a bed on the couch with all the blankets and pillows. The only thing missing is the popcorn I failed to buy at the grocery store. I know this must be so emotionally stressful for the kids. Although we are packing the days with fun it is all so new to them. Since they have not be allowed out much at all in the last five months they are getting used to a new normal.

We are recycling even more than we do at home (we faltered at times in all candor). The kids are in charge of bringing down the trash and recycling and getting it into the color-coded bins on the corner. It’s kind of nice not to have to wake up Cameron on Friday mornings and tell him to hurry up and get the recycling bins to the corner because he failed to put them out on Thursday! Now I can nag him EVERYDAY.

Last night after David finished work up around 11:30 pm we meandered to the corner restaurant for our first pitcher of Sangria (this trip, not EVER). 🙂 I think we will become regulars. While we were chatting and catching up outside there was a table of police officers eating and another with sanitation workers drinking coffee in the middle of their night shift. We are pleased to find a local joint we can frequent.

Will continue to wander the neighborhoods and explore as we can, including the beach about 25 minutes away on foot! Maybe it will even cool down and we can get in an early morning run or a little hike to cover more ground. For now, we will be content fiddling with the 3 different AC units in our apartment in an attempt to regulate the temp. So far we love all the quirkiness this new urban living has presented. The kids are taking it all in stride and embracing the change. Tonight we made burgers and dined al fresco on our little terrace. We love the sound of the cars buzzing below. This suits us.

Well, that’s a blow by blow of the first few days in country. Nothing too exciting as of yet, but we are loving every minute of it. Will try to engage the kids to share their thoughts in the coming days on the blog.

Farewell suckers!

That’s what my four year old nephew shouted as we drove away after saying goodbye. Side note: it will also be the last line I use at his wedding toast someday. Love that kid.

The last couple days brought with them a lot of sad goodbyes. Sisters, brothers, cousins, nieces & nephews, dads/grandpas, friends and of course Poppy.

Cameron and Poppy hugging one another goodbye.

We know she will be in good hands at Papa’s. To be honest, other than Cameron we are pretty sure Papa is her favorite.

On our way

Sixteen! bags full of our belongings for the next year.

We had more than a couple surprises too. My dad cooked the kids’ favorite meatballs and mashed potatoes last night then came by this morning for another goodbye.

Three generations of Petsolt boys.

And then as we were driving away, the Cameron crew was roadside with this amazing display!

Which of course warranted just one more hug.

We will miss you all, and look forward to things opening up 🤞 and finding times for friends and family to visit.

We will keep everyone posted here and on Instagram.

Now… 24 hours of travel… go!

This is really happening. Barcelona here we come!

Where do I even start?  This is my first official blog post for our upcoming move to Barcelona.  This will be our way of sharing what we’re doing for those who want to follow along.  It will also serve as a giant journal when we look back on our grand adventure!  We will all be posting on the blog so you’ll get everyone’s perspective on our crazy year.  I’ve held off on typing anything until now for fear of jinxing the application process for our residence visas…they arrived last week and I cried with relief.  We can now officially enter Spain as residents. Our flights have been booked for weeks and our departure date of Sunday, August 16 (THIS SUNDAY) is within sight.  I am filled with mixed emotions – thankfully more excitement than trepidation.  The hoops we have jumped through, the hard work, all the planning, the countless sleepless nights will all have been worth it when we wake up that first morning in our new place.  Our wonderful realtor has been invaluable in helping us secure our first overseas apartment.  It’s smack dab in the middle of all the action, right where we want to be.  The address is Carrer de la Diputació 249 if you want to google it.  We can reach nearly anywhere in the city on foot.  There’s a market on our block, a Michelin rated restaurant with wine bar below our balcony (could be good trouble), the metro is a block away (for when it’s safe to ride).  We have clicked around on google maps and it seems that anything we could possibly need or want is within a short walk.

Covid has definitely changed our outlook for travel.  Having originally planned to criss-cross Europe and Africa by plane we will now plan road trips and explore the great outdoors of Spain and France.  As things open back up and air travel seems safe, hopefully we can hit some of the far away spots we’ve got on our long, long wish list.  I’ll be posting from time to time where we are headed in hopes of getting some tips and pointers from those of you who have been to these spots.

I’ve been brushing up on my Spanish. Having once been fluent I think it will come back quickly once I’m on the ground and using it daily.  I’ve been listening to Spanish podcasts, using more challenging apps, reading the news in Spanish.  Speaking of the news – reports of outbreaks in Barcelona and Spain abound.  Luckily as we dig into the numbers we see that the infection rates are WAY lower than anything we see here in the US.  They are doing a lot of testing and contact tracing and we are far more comfortable with the idea of living in an urban, Spanish city with mask mandates than we are staying put.  Obviously we will keep wearing our masks and do our part to keep everyone safe and healthy.  As part of our requirements for the visa we obtained we had to secure private health insurance – something new and interesting to navigate in a foreign land.

Lilly and Cameron are both pumped about living overseas and the opportunities it will present.  We have had lots of great discussions about what the coming year might look like.  They have been using apps to learn more Spanish.  They are excited to live in an urban setting with the world just outside their door.  Lilly is hoping to join up with the Barcelona Dracs, a local lacrosse team made up of women from around the world – which sounds awesome.  I worked with Cameron to select his coursework and curriculum for 6th grade – it will be engaging and challenging.  With all the ups and downs in the US school systems our timing couldn’t be better to give the online learning/homeschooling a try.  I didn’t do such a great job (ok, I did a really bad job) finishing out the year with Cameron at home last spring.  I’ve got a new outlook and am pretty jazzed about the material we will work on side by side.  Lilly, as a 10th grader, has more work ahead but took yet another summer course so she has a “lighter” load this year.  We’ve found a couple of amazing AP class instructors who will both challenge her and keep her energized about European History and Statistics.  Our goal is to show her first hand some of what she is learning about! She is also getting help from a former teacher for whom we are very grateful.  Let’s hope everyone’s Spanish gets better as time moves on.  Honestly, I don’t want to be the only one able to ask for directions!

Everyone asks about David and his work schedule and how we will all manage.  Depending on daylight saving time, Barcelona is either 5 or 6 hours ahead of EST.  That means that while the east coast and the entire US are fast asleep we can be up and hanging out as a family.  We will explore together in the mornings and after lunch David can get to work while the kids and I tackle the schoolwork.  We can meet up again with David for a late dinner (well, dinner is always late in Spain) and he can work into the night.  He’s a night owl so it should work pretty well!

We have packed up our personal belongings and stored them in our attic and around town in the basements and closets of family.  A lovely family has rented our furnished house for the year.  They are already making themselves at home.  You’ll likely run into them around town. 

Our plan was always to go for about a year. Realizing that might not be enough time to see all we want to see and do all we want to do and eat all we want to eat, we might just extend our time in Barcelona.  No telling just yet.  So many friends and family were planning to come see us and until Americans can travel we might just stay put so we can get everyone over for a visit.  Saying goodbye is strange in the time of Covid.  No big hugs.  No grand send off.  No big friend gatherings for the kids.  The hardest part for me is that no one is booked to come see us.  Yet. In a “my glass is half full” way – we will be able to experience countless places without so many tourists for a while.  And that does seem pretty appealing.  

My mind has been on overdrive for months.  I have been making list after list and now have but a couple things to check off before I can feel completely ready to go.  I’m sure I’ve forgotten a few things….oh, well! I realize this post is all over the place but just wanted to get this blog thing started and fill you in on the plans.  Once we hit the ground in Spain we will update everyone. I’ll try to be funny next time. Sign up to follow along if you like… it’s going to be a wild year.  We wish for all of you to stay safe and healthy.  Be well.  – Kate