Cam was in London visiting Lilly, so Kate and I did what we do when we suddenly have a clear calendar and no one to answer to: we picked a country we’d never seen and booked it. Serbia had been sitting on the list for a while. This was the trip that finally moved it off.
We started in Belgrade. Our family friend Pete grew up there and handed over a list of places before we left, and Kate’s hairdresser, who happens to be Serbian, added his own, along with offers to call in favors, which is how we ended up one night at Dva Jelena, deep in the locals’ section rather than the tourist rooms. Red-checked tablecloths, a full band working its way between the tables for hours on end, smoke (so much smoke!) and warm light and the sense of having stepped back a few decades. It was the kind of night you can’t plan, only stumble into with good directions.
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Belgrade gave us the rest of its highlights without much arm-twisting. The Nikola Tesla Museum, where a guide demonstrated a coil with the practiced patience of someone who has done it ten thousand times and still enjoys the part where everyone flinches. St. Sava, modeled after the Hagia Sophia and roughly as humbling to stand inside. And a speakeasy whose entrance I won’t spoil, mostly because I’m not certain I could find it again.
Then north to Novi Sad, where our guide turned out to be the former director of military history, who had lived through a good deal of it himself. We slept in a hotel that used to be army barracks and now does a convincing impression of the Overlook, all long corridors and a silence that felt like it was waiting for something. I slept fine. Kate kept an ear open.
Out in the Fruลกka Gora hills we found the rest of it: the architecture of small towns, a frescoed monastery church where we stood looking up at the ceiling for a long while, then on to brick cellars lined with dark bottles, and an amazing vineyard-side lunch.
We have now been to every country that was once Yugoslavia except North Macedonia. We’ve loved all of them, each in a different way. One left. We’ll get there.
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Spring break this year was a road trip: out of Barcelona, through France as per usual, a stop in Luxembourg, and north to meet Lilly in Haarlem. From there the days ran together in the good way: a lakeside spot outside Amsterdam you could only reach by boat, Madurodam (my favorite place when I was three, and still cool!), wandering Ghent and Antwerp, and good coffee where we could sit in the sun and just be together.
We folded in a few university tours for Cameron along the way, the official reason for the trip. The unofficial reasons: the wine bars, family time, boating, and loving the Low Countries.
The trip ended at Spa-Francorchamps, where we all stood above Eau Rouge for a while before splitting up. Cam and I peeled off to drive home; Kate and Lilly carried on to Paris and Bruges to meet the Camerons. Shots are a mix of Leica and iPhone, which is to say a mix of the photos I meant to take and the ones I just grabbed along the way.
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Cameron was off snowboarding in the Pyrenees with his school, which left Kate and me with a rare open week and a short flight’s worth of options. Malta won, mostly because neither of us had been there and someone had recently mentioned it on a call. It sounded good.
There’s also some amazing pre-Egyptian history on the island โ the megalithic temples here predate the pyramids by about a thousand years. We saw none of it, though we did hit a history museum, which was cool.
Valletta was our base of operations. Honey-colored limestone everywhere, narrow streets that funnel you toward the harbor whether you meant to go there or not, and plenty of cafรฉs and wine bars tempting you at every turn. St. John’s Co-Cathedral is the showpiece. Caravaggio’s Beheading of Saint John the Baptist was a highlight. The floor is its own thing: hundreds of pietra dura tomb slabs for the Knights of Malta, inlaid in colored marble. Fun to spot a few Catalan references in there.
We rented a weird three-wheeled motorcycle for a day, which I’m sure has a proper name but felt mostly like a motorcycle and a quad had a brief, ugly relationship. Took it around Gozo, the separate island to the north. Caves, sea arches, the Blue Lagoon out at Comino, salt harvesting, and a small church at noon where the caretaker waved us over to ring the bell.
Maybe a few that were a bit more impromptu and didn’t make the notebook. And many that happened along the way on adventures outside of Barcelona. A sundowner in the bush, a picnic on a sailboat along the coast, or a quaint bistro in one of the numerous places we were lucky enough to visit in 2025. Then there were the places we got to experience with family and friends. Not as intimate, but still some highlights of the year.
And the re-citas — those places that were not new, but favorites and worth a second… or tenth visit. Lots of those too. Barcelona, in particular, is never-ending with amazing food and vibes for a good date or gathering with friends. Having Kate pick and plan so many for just the two of us to be together and experience a new place was amazing. It is going to be hard to top 52 Citas!
Here are just a few we’ve been able to share in 2025, that are not part of the “official” 52 citas.
After an epic safari, we werenโt quite ready to say goodbye to Africaโso we didnโt. We headed back to Tanzania and on to Zanzibar, where more family joined us from Barcelona for a Christmas on the beach. Sandy feet, salty hair, games, lots of laughs, and the perfect shift from game drives to slow, dreamy, sun-soaked family time.
Tanzania & Kenya: Even When You Know Africa, She Still Surprises You
Between Kate, Lilly, Cameron, and me, Africa has been a recurring chapter in our family story the past few yearsโdifferent countries, different camps, different eras of wide-eyed wonder. But December in Tanzania and Kenya was something entirely new: it was my sister’s first safari, marking her initial encounter with Africa, and my brothers-in-law’s first in nearly 50 years, making it a rare reunion with the wild continent. It was our first time in the Serengeti and the Masai Mara, two places so storied they almost risk being over-mythologized.
Almost.
This safari still managed to knock the wind out of us.
A Gentle Landing (Before the Wild Begins)
We eased into Africa properly, spending our first night at Legendary Lodge, a colonial coffee plantation outside Arusha. It was the perfect decompression chamber: bird calls instead of alarms, lazy views of the mountains, rich Tanzanian coffee, and the quiet mental shift that happens when you realize schedules no longer matter.
The next morning, we prepared for the adventure ahead, stepping into the small planes that would carry us closer to the wild.
There is something eternally thrilling about lifting off in a light aircraft and landing on a dirt airstrip carved into open savannah, the bush stretching out in all directions as if to say, Right thenโlet’s begin.
Serengeti Under Canvas: Polished Silver, Hot Buckets, and Hyena Laughter
&Beyond Serengeti Under Canvas is the sort of place that resets your understanding of “luxury.” Canvas walls. Chandeliers. Crisp sheets. Polished silver. And yesโa hot shower bucket, filled by your butler by hand, on request, as steam rises into the African night.
It is indulgent. But when you’re standing under that shower in the dark, looking up at the starry southern sky, listening to hyenas vocalize in the distance, it feels like the only correct way to experience the Serengeti. The sounds carry differently at nightโcloser, more personal, impossible to ignore.
Then we tucked under a duvet, while animals staged arguments just beyond our tent.
Sleep comesโฆ eventually. Then the sunrise pops through the screen to start the day and our first game drives.
Grumeti: When the Migration Decides to Stay for the Show
We arrived in &Beyond Grumeti knowing the odds. The Great Migration was supposed to have moved on. The calendars said so. The guides warned us gently not to expect miracles.
Africa, apparently, hadn’t checked the schedule.
Instead, we found ourselves in the midst of hundreds of thousands of wildebeest, massed across the plains in numbers so large they distort your sense of scale. The ground in the distance seemed to ripple. The air buzzed. It felt less like watching wildlife and more like witnessing a force of nature briefly pause for dramatic effect.
It was one of those safari moments you don’t announce loudlyโyou just sit with it, absorbing the luck of being in precisely the right place at exactly the right time.
Leopards, Lions, and Familiar Thrills That Never Get Old
Yes, we’ve seen lions before. But man, it never gets old.
Africa has a way of reminding you that repetition doesn’t dull wonderโit sharpens it.
We saw lions everywhere, often with kills, sprawled in that unmistakably satisfied way that says the hunt went well. Leopards appeared where leopards always doโhalf-hidden, perfectly placed, effortlessly theatrical.
At one point, a leopard kill inspired a family re-enactment that will never win awards for accuracy but will live forever in memory. Safari has a way of oscillating between reverence and ridiculousness, often within the same hour.
Kenya & Bateleur: Where Old-School Safari Lives On
Crossing into Kenya and landing in the Masai Mara felt like stepping into a sepia-toned photographโwide skies, acacia silhouettes, and a landscape that seemed to be waiting for you.
&Beyond Bateleur Camp is unapologetically romantic. Fireside evenings. A sense that time has politely slowed down. And just over the next hill? The filming location for Out of Africa, which somehow makes the entire setting feel even more cinematic.
One morning, we traded tires for a wicker basket and took to the sky in a hot-air balloon over the Masai Mara. Drifting silently above the plains at first light, we watched herds stitch patterns across the savannah while the world woke up below us. No engine noise, no commentaryโjust altitude, perspective, and the quiet realization that Africa is even more impressive when she knows you’re not in a rush.
But there were moments of adrenaline, too.
This was where we tracked a lion hunt at night, the Mara revealing a darker, more electric version of itself. Spotlights cut through the blackness, the air taut with anticipation. Zeebras yelping warnings in the background. It was raw, intense, and unforgettableโthe kind of sighting that reminds you this is not a theme park.
Firsts, Familiar Magic, and Africaโs Impeccable Timing
One of the quiet joys of this journey was watching firsts happen againโnot our first safaris, but first experiences in these legendary places. The Serengeti. The Masai Mara. The migration in full, thunderous scale.
Even when you kn aow Africa, she finds new ways to introduce herself.
And perhaps the most special thread running through the trip was my sister’s first safari. Watching someone experience Africa for the first timeโthat stunned silence when a lion appears too close for comfortโis a reminder of why this continent gets under your skin.
Afternoons often ended with a sundowner in the bush, appearing unexpectedly at precisely the right time. Those pausesโdrink in hand, sun sinking, dust glowingโare where the day finally settles into you.
This safari reminded us that experience doesn’t dull magicโit refines it. Tanzania and Kenya didn’t try to outdo our previous safaris; they stood confidently in their own greatness and let us come to them.
From bucket showers under canvas to airborne crossings over the savannah, from migration miracles to lions arguing in the dark, this journey didn’t just meet expectationsโit quietly, decisively exceeded them.
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Beyond the other trips, summer and fall were busy. We made it to London a couple of times to see Lilly and catch a Vikings victory, and had visits from both friends and family. We had an amazing Thanksgiving, and were just exploring.
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Not that long ago, Poblenou had almost no decent coffee spots. But thatโs changed. With the startups came the coffee shops. Now it is common to trip over three or four on a single block โ all local, all unique, all worth trying.
So we did the only reasonable thing: made a day of it. I love a theme and a logo! Eight stops. Seven cortados. One vermut (we needed to calm those heartbeats down somehow). A medley of tiny stools. And no two cortados alike.
We called it Dรญa de los Cortados. Everyone got a stamp after each cafรฉ, and by mid-afternoon our hands looked like weโd been rubbing up against poison ivy. Lilly documented the groupโs descent from “chill curiosity” (#1), evolving into “lots of ‘ideas'” (3) and what she described as โsquirrely / ADHDโ (#4), and finally โramblingโ (#6). Accurate.
Along the way, we rated the coffee (and sometimes the chairs), coined new terms, debated whether Michael invented pants, learned from Anna that, “I’ve had four cortados, I can do what I want.”
The day was a long, zigzag walk with warm cups, familiar voices, and the creation of new stories.
With a cortado. Or seven.
Our rating:
Here are the ratings and how we described each place. Yeah, sometimes people used numbers to describe. It is what it is.
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So, during the month of August, just assume Spain is closed.
You want to go to your favorite coffee shop? “See you in September!”
Need a new outfit? “We return September 1st.”
The fish market? “We are on vacation.”
The pharmacy?!?! “Notice, vacation.”
Fruit stand? Handwritten, “We return September, happy vacation!”
And sometimes, a shop’s door is just closed for about a month without a sign. Or the sign is faded. Or illegible.
These “signs” honestly make for a pretty entertaining walk around the city as there are easily hundreds of them. But that also means that almost anywhere you want to go will be closed for the foreseeable future.
*Note that these hours are never accurately advertised on their google listing
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For fun, I packed a portable camera and set it to black and white. This turned out to be a perfect way to see Polandโtimeless streets, heavy history, and everyday life all seemed to belong together.
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